Lesson 1 · A gentle why
Why can't I have kisses?
Because something that is harmless to a grown-up can sometimes be very serious for a newborn.
Babies, especially very young or premature babies, have immature immune systems. Their bodies are still developing the ability to fight infections that adults may cope with easily.
One particular concern: HSV
One of the biggest concerns is herpes simplex virus (HSV) — the virus that commonly causes cold sores.
A person can have HSV without realising it, and a cold sore can pass the virus to a baby through a kiss.
For a newborn, this can develop into neonatal herpes, which can be a serious and sometimes life-threatening infection.
You don't have to kiss me to show me you love me.
A smile, a cuddle, a gentle touch or simply being there means just as much.